A Bullying Resource for Parents & Caring Adults
If a child is either being bullied or exhibiting bullying behaviors, it can be important to also take stock of any past traumas, as strategies to help them can be different.
Positive Coaching Alliance
This resource will explore the following topics in-depth:
The three major indicators of bullying are behavior that:
It’s important that you feel equipped to have a safe and intentional conversation with your child about how bullying has affected their wellbeing. Our resources can help you prepare for that conversation.
There is no “perfect time” to talk to your child. It is important to start the conversation in a timely fashion so they can receive support when they need it most.
Bullying behavior can be unlearned, but it won’t be resolved on its own – it requires help from parents and other caring adults. They must learn and understand that their actions hurt others and how they can improve their behavior. They also need to understand why they are bullying others and how that bullying makes the other person feel. Developing empathy and compassion are skills that can be developed. We have resources available to support you in this effort.
Once you’ve talked with your child and understand the situation, develop an action plan together. Then reach out to their school to share information about your concerns and possible ways to rectify the situation.
Students who are both targets of bullying and engage in bullying behaviors are at greater risk for both mental health and behavior problems than students who bully or are only bullied
National Center for Educational Statistics
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